{"id":982,"date":"2023-02-06T04:15:54","date_gmt":"2023-02-06T12:15:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lenpenzo.com\/blog\/?p=982"},"modified":"2023-02-13T07:09:55","modified_gmt":"2023-02-13T15:09:55","slug":"valentines-day-quiz-how-to-tell-if-youre-dating-a-deadbeat-yes-really-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lenpenzo.com\/blog\/id982-valentines-day-quiz-how-to-tell-if-youre-dating-a-deadbeat-yes-really-2.html","title":{"rendered":"How to Know If You&#8217;re Dating a Deadbeat"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/lenpenzo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/deadbeat.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-17712\" title=\"deadbeat\" src=\"https:\/\/lenpenzo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/deadbeat.jpg\" alt=\"how to know if you're dating a deadbeat\" width=\"395\" height=\"236\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lenpenzo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/deadbeat.jpg 500w, https:\/\/lenpenzo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/deadbeat-300x179.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 395px) 100vw, 395px\" \/><\/a>Are you afraid you may be romantically attached to a financially irresponsible person? Or maybe you&#8217;re unsure about how to know if you&#8217;re dating a deadbeat. These are both serious situations that require immediate attention.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m very fortunate that the Honeybee and I rarely have a disagreement regarding money. In fact, after 26 years of marriage, I can only remember it happening once &#8212; and <strong><em>that<\/em><\/strong> was entirely due to a silly misunderstanding.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/online.wsj.com\/article\/SB10000872396390444025204577544951717564114.html\">One particular study<\/a> affirmed the conventional wisdom that says money is the most likely point of conflict in a marriage. This is especially true when one spouse tends to be a spender while the other is a saver.<\/p>\n<p>When a married couple has different philosophies regarding the importance of financial responsibility, <a href=\"https:\/\/lenpenzo.com\/blog\/id17245-true-story-how-to-cope-when-your-spouse-skips-out-with-all-the-cash-2.html\">there&#8217;s usually going to be big problems<\/a> somewhere down the road; many times, the only solution ends up being a messy and expensive divorce.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, that&#8217;s why it&#8217;s important to know if your partner is financially compatible with you <strong><em>before<\/em><\/strong> you tie the knot.<\/p>\n<p>So, does your current steady have <strong><em>their<\/em><\/strong> financial act together?<\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t know, you better find out &#8212; especially with Valentine&#8217;s Day around the corner. Think about it. Just because your flame is spoiling you doesn&#8217;t mean that he (or she) can afford it.<\/p>\n<p>True, your lover may <strong><em>seem<\/em><\/strong> to be financially well-off, but will he be able to maintain his lifestyle <strong><em>after<\/em><\/strong> you get married? And if not, does he possess the discipline required to throttle back on the spending pedal?<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, folks who fail to ask those simple questions often end up being led into a financial quagmire.<\/p>\n<p>Thankfully, there <strong><em>are<\/em><\/strong> warning signs for those who choose to pay attention.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How to Know If You&#8217;re Dating a Deadbeat<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3l9zKq3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Get Financially Naked: How to Talk Money with Your Honey<\/em><\/a>, co-authors Manisha Thakor and Sharon Kedar offer five indicators that may signal you&#8217;re dating a deadbeat. I&#8217;ve listed them here, along with a few additional ones of my own.<\/p>\n<p>How many of these apply to your current valentine?<\/p>\n<p><strong>They always insist on picking up the check at a big dinner or throwing down a credit card without looking at the bill.<\/strong> This may be <a href=\"https:\/\/lenpenzo.com\/blog\/id1213-the-ugly-truth-why-big-spenders-are-terrible-in-bed.html\">the sign of a big spender<\/a> living beyond his means in an attempt to impress you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They live in a large but sparsely furnished home.<\/strong> According to Thakor and Kedar, this can indicate your partner has, as they say in Texas, &#8220;a big hat, but no cattle.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>They avoid answering phone calls.<\/strong> This is a potential sign that your steady is avoiding bill collectors.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They lease a car.<\/strong> Yeah, this seems like a bit of a stretch to me too. However, leasing <strong><em>is<\/em><\/strong> often a sign of living beyond one&#8217;s means.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They ask you to buy things for them or cosign loans.<\/strong><em> But, Len, they always promise to pay me back.<\/em> Okay. Let me know how that works out for you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They have a lot of bills marked &#8220;urgent&#8221; or &#8220;past due.&#8221; <\/strong>This is another big <a href=\"https:\/\/lenpenzo.com\/blog\/id591-top-10-signs-you-could-be-headed-for-debtors-prison-2.html\">financial red flag<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They have bills in somebody else&#8217;s name.<\/strong> It could be an ex-sweetheart&#8217;s bill, or indicate that your current lover couldn&#8217;t get an account on their own. Then again, it could also mean that the postman simply delivered the bill to the wrong person &#8212; so make sure you verify that address before you get too accusatory.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They admit that their credit cards are maxed out.<\/strong> This, too, is a great indicator of somebody having trouble living within their means.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They have a payday loan company magnet on the refrigerator door.<\/strong> Ah, yes &#8230; &#8220;Joe&#8217;s Payday Loans: <a href=\"https:\/\/lenpenzo.com\/blog\/id15845-dear-friend-here-are-41-reasons-why-im-not-lending-you-the-money-2.html\">When nobody else will lend you money<\/a>. Not even your relatives.&#8221; Don&#8217;t laugh. Short of a loan shark, the payday loan company is typically <strong><em>the<\/em><\/strong> lender of last resort.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They have a live-in maid named &#8220;Mom.&#8221;<\/strong> Psst. Come closer. If you said &#8220;yes&#8221; to this one, and you happen to be in your lover&#8217;s house right now, listen to me very carefully. Put down the mouse. Then calmly walk out the door and get away. As fast as you possibly can.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-size: smaller;\">Photo Credit: FBellon<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you afraid you may be romantically attached to a financially irresponsible person? Or maybe you&#8217;re unsure about how to know if you&#8217;re dating a deadbeat. These are both serious situations that require immediate attention. I&#8217;m very fortunate that the Honeybee and I rarely have a disagreement regarding money. 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