{"id":11528,"date":"2022-12-07T04:15:44","date_gmt":"2022-12-07T12:15:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lenpenzo.com\/blog\/?p=11528"},"modified":"2022-12-07T07:02:04","modified_gmt":"2022-12-07T15:02:04","slug":"a-few-thoughts-from-aunt-doris-do-i-know-you-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lenpenzo.com\/blog\/id11528-a-few-thoughts-from-aunt-doris-do-i-know-you-2.html","title":{"rendered":"A Few Thoughts from Aunt Doris: Do I Know You?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Don’t you just hate it when you’re out and someone comes up to you and says, “Hey! Long time no see! How are you doing?”<\/p>\n

And then you think: Who are you?<\/em><\/p>\n

Then they start rambling on while you desperately rack your brain trying to place them: Is he an old school chum? A coworker perhaps? Maybe he’s (heaven<\/em> forbid) even a relative!<\/p>\n

We English have one thing that helps: we tend to call everyone “Lovey” — so at least I have a name to fall back on. And as they seem to know me, “Lovey” seems to suffice.<\/p>\n

Eventually, the mystery person usually mentions something that rings a bell for me.<\/p>\n

Oh, yes! Now I know you!<\/em> (Although I still don’t remember your name — so calling you “Lovey” will have to do.)<\/em><\/p>\n

In those awkward situations, I really can’t breathe again until they finally leave.<\/p>\n

\"Doris\"

Aunt Doris<\/p><\/div>\n

You know, the brain is a funny thing, and as you get older it only gets funnier.<\/p>\n

As I tell my son, Kevin, when you get to be 91-years-old, you have so many facts and figures filling up all those brain compartments, it takes a while to sort everything out!<\/p>\n

So remember, when you meet an “oldie” like me, please be patient. Sometimes I can’t remember what I did last week — although, funny enough, I can<\/em><\/strong> remember things from 60 years ago.<\/p>\n

(See, I told you the brain is a funny thing!)<\/p>\n

So long for now “Loveys!”<\/p>\n

Aunt Doris<\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

This is an encore edition of an article from my dear Aunt Doris, who passed away in 2015 at the age of 94. This article was originally published on 4 April 2012.<\/em><\/p>\n

Photo Credit: Dierk Schaefer<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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